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Blog – personal stories, insights & support on grief & loss


Grief on a Team After a Death: What Actually Helps
A coworker has died, and nobody knows what to say. Practical words and steps for coworkers and managers, from the first 48 hours to supporting the team long-term.

Theres Kirisits
2 days ago7 min read


How to Deal With Trauma After a Sudden Death: What Helps
A sudden death shakes more than your heart, it shakes your nervous system. How to recognize trauma and what actually helps right now.

Theres Kirisits
5 days ago7 min read


My Mom Died Suddenly: Martina on Life Without Her Mother
Martina's mom died within a week, with no chance to say goodbye. What remains four years later, and what can help if your mother died suddenly.

Theres Kirisits
Oct 1211 min read


Grief After a Breakup: Why It Can Feel Like a Real Loss
Breakup grief is just as real as grief after a death. Why it so often gets dismissed, and what actually helps you right now.

Theres Kirisits
Oct 78 min read


Losing a Mother: A Real Grief Story
A real grief story about what losing your mother actually feels like, why grief never follows a straight line, and what's different five years later.

Theres Kirisits
Sep 309 min read


How Long Does Grief Last? Why There's No Fixed Timeline
"How long is this going to last?" is one of the most common questions in grief. Why there's no fixed timeline, what shapes your grief, and when to reach out for support.

Theres Kirisits
Sep 198 min read


Losing Friends After a Loss: Why Friendships Change in Grief
After a loss, your circle of friends often changes too. Some drift away, some stay, and some suddenly become closer than ever. Why this happens and what helps.

Theres Kirisits
Sep 167 min read


Grief After Abortion: Is It Normal to Feel This Way?
After an abortion, relief, certainty, and grief can sit side by side. Why all of these feelings are allowed, and how to find space for them without judgment.

Theres Kirisits
Sep 146 min read


Why Can't I Grieve? Feeling Numb After a Death
"I should be feeling something, but there's nothing there." Emotional numbness after a death can be a normal protective response, and part of grief rather than its absence.

Theres Kirisits
Sep 116 min read


Physical Symptoms of Grief: How Grief Affects Body and Mind
Racing heart, headaches, brain fog: grief is a whole-body experience. Which physical and mental reactions are normal, why they happen, and how to care for yourself.

Theres Kirisits
Sep 88 min read


How to Support Someone Who Is Grieving: What to Say and Do
Want to be there for someone who's grieving but can't find the right words? What actually helps, which well-meaning phrases can hurt, and how to keep showing up over time.

Theres Kirisits
Sep 17 min read


Grief After Miscarriage: Feelings, Support, and What Helps
"It was still so early." Words like these hurt because they make the loss seem smaller. Your grief after a miscarriage is real and doesn't need justifying.

Theres Kirisits
Aug 316 min read


Grieving a Mother or Father After a Difficult Relationship
Grief, relief, guilt, all at once? If your relationship with your mother or father was difficult, your grief is still real.

Theres Kirisits
Aug 256 min read


Stages of Grief: The 5 Stages and Why Grief Isn't Linear
Denial, anger, acceptance: almost everyone has heard of the stages of grief. Where the model really comes from, why it rarely matches real grief, and what can help instead.

Theres Kirisits
Aug 58 min read


Grief in the Workplace: How Employers Can Support Grieving Employees
A colleague dies, an employee loses a parent: most companies aren't prepared. What HR and managers can do, drawn from real workplace grief programs.

Theres Kirisits
May 307 min read


Grieving Your Mom: Margarita's Story of Loss and Life After
Margarita was 24 when she lost her mom after two years of cancer. In this interview, she shares what gives her strength, what remains, and what grief really feels like.

Theres Kirisits
May 2112 min read


Working While Grieving: Is Grief Even Allowed Here?
Eleven years in the corporate world, where grief was taboo. What you need when you have to work after a loss, and why grief needs room between emails and meetings too.

Theres Kirisits
May 218 min read
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